From Across the Ancient Water by Michael Phillips

Creation reveals itself in secrets, but as secrets that are outer cloaks of truths waiting to be discovered. pg 152 "It is humility that leads us home. It is that same humility that leads us to reconciliation in our lives. Humility, my friends. The humility to say to one we have wronged, to one who has wronged us, to one with whom misunderstandings have separated us for whatever reason...to say, 'I no longer want to be disconnected. I do not want to be apart from this one whom I once loved.' In humility I am ready to say, "I will arise and go to my brother...my sister...my mother...my daughter...my father...my son.' I will say, 'With all my heart I desire again to be in a relationship with you. I am sorry to have failed in loving you, but I will try to love you again.' "The humility to acknowledge, 'I do not want to be separated on day more. I will arise and go.' "Humility, my friends. Humility to recognize that life is not what we had hoped. Humility to recognize that life is full of mistakes, that we have made our own share of them. Humility to apologize. humility to arise and go to the one we have hurt. Humility to go to one who has hurt us. "Humility is the doorway, my friends. It is the door to all healings, the door that leads to our brethren, the door that leads to our sons and daughters and mothers and fathers and our friends...the door that leads to the heart of God." pg 174 & 175 "My father says that God makes His will in our lives known by the subtle inner nudges in response to our prayers, and He confirms that leading by circumstance. He says that the Lord uses circumstances to confirm his leading, even occasionally to change the direction of his leading. As long as we're not in a hurry and willing to wait, the two always line up at some point--the direction of the leading and the circumstances that make it possible to follow that leading. When the two line up, you can be confident that God might indeed be indicating a certain direction. "Might be. That doesn't sound very definite.' "You never know 100 percent. There's a certain amount of guesswork involved in following the Lord's leading. My father says that our own desires can interfere and make us think God is leading when we are really just following what we want to do ourselves. It is also easy to misinterpret circumstances and think they're saying something they're not. That's why the most important thing in listening to God's voice is to set aside your own desire and ambitions. And then be willing to go slow in making decisions. That's another thing my father says, that God is never in a hurry." pg 396